if only have about 7% chance to meet the person that you will want to spend our life with [on the best of all the possible outcomes], it comes as no surprise that we tend to close ourselves and not to let new people in: the probability of disappointment and hurting, is just too big.
However, there is a catch-22 to this game, in order to achieve the upper levels of love and intimacy, one should let go with clear mind, open heart, and not be frightful of what may happen, that will only lower your chances to work out and it may prevent you to be truly happy i.e. you need to be true, follow your instincts, reason, and heart to move upwards in the relationships roadmap
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This roadmap is from a man's point of view, and is only applicable to "boy meets girl situation", it is a simplified version of real life. At any given level (any at all), if the person surprises, a new situation arises, or you just see the person on a different light [for better or worse], then you should start from the beginning and reassess your position.
However, there is a catch-22 to this game, in order to achieve the upper levels of love and intimacy, one should let go with clear mind, open heart, and not be frightful of what may happen, that will only lower your chances to work out and it may prevent you to be truly happy i.e. you need to be true, follow your instincts, reason, and heart to move upwards in the relationships roadmap
(click on picture to enlarge)
This roadmap is from a man's point of view, and is only applicable to "boy meets girl situation", it is a simplified version of real life. At any given level (any at all), if the person surprises, a new situation arises, or you just see the person on a different light [for better or worse], then you should start from the beginning and reassess your position.
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